I'm not sure if anyone follows this blog anymore, or even if anyone stumbles across it occasionally. I thought about closing it because there is so much pain here, but for one reason or another I left it.
Anyhow.... ALOT has changed. In ways I just couldn't fathom a few months ago.
Hubby & I are still together. The other woman is GONE. The turning point came in January when I was about to lose my job and then suddenly I was offered a better one with more hours. Long story short, we talked things through and his perception of me changed almost overnight.